Today the hubs and I celebrate our 9th wedding anniversary. Nine years! When we get the chance, we’ll look at our wedding album and watch our video together. Just to reminisce the happiest moment of our lives as we start our new life together as husband and wife. Each year I reflect upon our marriage to see where we are and what needs improvement. We should be on the same page by creating dreams and goals for our family, but it seems like we were slowly getting there.
We enjoyed our freedom, and it was only that time we felt like husband and wife because we had a place of our own. Living in our first apartment put our marriage to the testand BOY! It was tough! We’ve had maybe a few big arguments over pressing matters. I’m trying to focus on putting God in the center of our marriage. I think I lost it along the way before I had my boys. I know my hubs does the best for his family, but sometimes he doesn’t acknowledge that God works in our lives. He has a plan for us that I believe. I keep reminding ourselves, this will pass, and we’ll get through it together and be stronger as a couple.
We’ve had our ups and downs in the marriage, and I just can’t believe we made it to 9 years. Two years of parenthood and so far going strong despite our trials. Every day I pray for him because his work is keeping him busy. I also pray that he has an understanding that being a fulltime mom has a lot of work and balancing being a wife.